Things to take care of before meeting your Boyfriend’s parents

 

Taking your relationship to the next level is one major part of anyone’s life. When you are actually sure that the one you are dating is the one you want to spend your life with. After you guys decide to live together forever, the next part is to meet the family. For girls it can be a little confusing and we girls like our usual selves have lot of questions in mind. Worry not! We got your back. Hence, here’s the list.

 

Things to take care of before meeting your Boyfriend’s parents

 

Get a little gift

So this is a basic etiquette. It has nothing to do with anything materialistic. You can get something as small as a pack of freshly baked cupcakes. Its just the gesture that counts. You can also just get a bottle of wine or some flowers. Flowers always work!

 

Arrive on time

Arriving late is a big turn off! Also you do want to create a nice first impression. Coming late and then landing with a bad excise is something you need to avoid. Plan things accordingly and arrive on the time you are expected.

 

Dress for the Occasion

This is where you need a little help from your boyfriend. Also I would like to mention here that “do not think you are doing this to impress anyone.” You do not have to do anything that you don’t like. But it is also true that going out for a night out with your girlies and meeting your boyfriend’s parents are two different things. Wear something that everyone including you likes.

 

Some homework to break the ice

Now you don’t want to be sitting quietly when the purpose of meeting the family is to get along with each other. So its better to do some research on what everyone do and their likes and interests. This will help you give topics to talk about.

 

Be honest and respectful

There are going to be a lot of things that are different between them and you. It its completely fine because no one is supposed to be like anyone else. You just be honest about what you feel and how you are. They are supposed to like you the way you are off course. But make sure you put your word forward in a respectful way. Never lose your calm.

 

Appreciate

Let them know that you like their son the way he is. Tell them you love the way he has been brought up. It will give them a clear picture that you both are serious about each other.

 

This is not at all a scary or serious thing. Take it with the flow and just be you. Have anymore questions? You can write to us! Or just follow us!

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